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Friday
Apr172009

Prayer Request...

I’m going to take a little break from talking about design and switch to something very personal. It’s early Friday morning and it was a long sleepless night. I decided to get up and put these thoughts on paper as if to find some way to feel better. 

Last night when I got home from a non-stop day…several meetings with contractors, architects, clients, customers and friends…then to the gym, then finally home…rush here, rush there, get to the next appointment…

I was told of some very sad and tragic news.

A little boy in my youngest daughter’s 3rd grade class had been swept out into the ocean the day before. It’s Spring Break for us right now and he was at the beach, playing in a tide pool when the water started getting rough…

the search has now been called off…

You hear, now and then, a story such as this and as a mother it “always” hurts your heart…it’s like we have this universal mothering radar…that deep compassion for children, any child…and then you “go there” as a mom and think about,

what if……………….

I just could never even imagine….

I have watched this little boy play amazing soccer, while on a neighboring field I watched my own child play…

I have watched his older brother, who is a good friend of my oldest daughter, be there to put his arm around him after the school day was over. Day in and day out he would help his little brother with his backpack, which is always just as big as they are at that age. We’d talk as we waited for the school bell to ring….I had always enjoyed that. I could just tell he loved his little brother, wanted to protect him…

I remember doing art projects and class parties….and the typical things we do as parents in our children’s classrooms…we’ve watched them grow up…

but now one of them is gone…and I wish there was something I could do to help...

Explaining it to my daughters was rough…. They slept in our room last night….I wanted them to be close just as much as they did.

I’m sure there will be counselors at the school on Monday, we’ll all talk and cry and talk some more…and pray….pray for this family which has already had too much tragedy for a lifetime…

pray so that they can get through another day.

Last night I held my children tight….today I’ve cancelled appointments to be with my them…

stop rushing…

slow down…

hug them, enjoy the little things,

be thankful….

If you’ve come across this post it wasn’t by coincidence. It’s a reminder that life is precious, that it can end just a fast as a single crashing wave…

If your beliefs are so inclined, please pray for the family, the school , the community. I sincerely thank you for doing so. 

Reader Comments (4)

Watching this story on the news last night, they put up a photo of this little boy's beaming smiling face on the screen and my heart completely broke. Your words describe something that seems like there are no words for...
April 17, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJen
My heart has been so heavy with this.You said so beautifully what I have had a hard time verbalizing. Thank you for your gift of sensitivity and compassion. Love you.
April 22, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterCindy
i was just linked to your site from lindsey cheney's. i wanted to read some of your entries...learn more about you. and i came across this post. and you are right. it was not an accident that i read your entry today. today. i want to appreciate and be more thankful for what i have been blessed with. such a tragedy. and God WHO is bigger than all of us, bigger than our understanding...knew this would happen. and He holds that precious little boy as we speak. may God...the little boys Creator, embrace all those who are hurting. bring comfort and peace to their hearts and into their lives. may they find purpose for what has happened...PURPOSE. i can't even begin to imagine their pain...and that of all who loved him. i am a mother of two young babies...and so, that pains me, even in not knowing them. i promise to pray for them, for you, for your kids, for the school. may God be real in this time of pain.
sincerely...in HIS name...
shannon stinson
June 16, 2009 | Unregistered Commentershannon stinson
Shannon, thank you, thank you, I'm so touched and thankful for your prayers...I recently found out that the little boy's name means "Ocean & Heaven"...only God could have inspired his name so prophetically. I so appreciate your thoughtfulness. Mari~
June 16, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMari

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